i find it so incredibly attractive when someone is really good at something, like you can play the violin? damn son. you’re a really talented dj? good for you! i don’t care if you talk to me about quantum physics for an hour straight if i can see the passion in you at some point in that hour i’ll think “whoa, this is really hot.”
Be grateful and appreciate the wonderful people you have in your life because they can leave in a blink of an eye. Don’t give up on people because chances are, they have their reasons for being distant. It’s up to you to reach out and be a friend.